200+ Quotes & Sayings By Colleen Hoover

Colleen Hoover is an author from Alberta, Canada. She is best known for her debut novel Slammed, a New York Times and USA Today Bestseller. Hoover spent nearly a decade working as a yoga instructor before beginning to write. Her books have been translated into over thirty languages and have sold over 17 million copies Read more

Hoover’s writing has been described as “poignant and raw” by Publisher’s Weekly, “lushly romantic" by Cosmopolitan, and “inspiring” by Vogue Magazine.

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You’ll never be able to find yourself if you’re lost in someone else. Colleen Hoover
Sometimes two people have to fall apart, to realize how...
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Sometimes two people have to fall apart, to realize how much they need to fall back together. Colleen Hoover
I...will never...regret you.
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I...will never...regret you. Colleen Hoover
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When you find love, you take it. You grab it with both hands and you do everything in your power not to let it go. You can’t just walk away from it and expect it to linger until you’re ready for it. Colleen Hoover
This thing about you that you think is your flaw...
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This thing about you that you think is your flaw - it's the reason I'm falling in love with you. Colleen Hoover
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You can’t leave yet. I’m not finished falling in love with you. Colleen Hoover
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If we’re going to kiss, it has to be book-worthy. Colleen Hoover
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Does he treat you with respect at all times? That's the first question. The second question is, if he is the exact same person twenty years from now that he is today, would you still want to marry him? And finally, does he inspire to be a better person? You find someone you can answer yes to all three, then you've found a good man. Colleen Hoover
I would never let anyone else borrow my heart if...
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I would never let anyone else borrow my heart if I know there’s a chance in hell you might want it back. Colleen Hoover
The only difference between falling in love and being in...
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The only difference between falling in love and being in love is that your heart already knows how you feel, but your mind is too stubborn to admit it. Colleen Hoover
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I think about you every second of every day and I don’t know how to get over you, ” she says.“ Don’t, ” I beg her. “Please don’t get over me. Colleen Hoover
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You left with my soul in your fists and my heart in your teeth, and I don’t want either of them back.” ~Ben Colleen Hoover
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The fact that Ridge has been honest in his conversations with me is not something he did wrong. The fact that he has feelings for me also isn’t wrong, when you know exactly how much he’s fought those feelings. People can’t control matters of the heart, Warren. They can only control their actions, which is exactly what Ridge did. He lost control once for ten seconds, but after that, every single time temptation reared its ugly head, he walked in the other direction. The only thing Ridge has done wrong is fail to delete his messages, because by doing so, he failed to protect Maggie. He failed to protect her from the harsh truth that people don’t get to choose who they fall in love with. They only get to choose who they stay in love with.” I look up at the ceiling and blink back tears. “He was choosing to stay in love with her, Warren. Why can’t she see that? This will kill him so much more than it’s killing her. . Colleen Hoover
Don't take life too seriously. Punch it in the face...
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Don't take life too seriously. Punch it in the face when it needs a good hit. Laugh at it. Colleen Hoover
Life happens. Shit happens. And it happens a lot. To...
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Life happens. Shit happens. And it happens a lot. To a lot of people. Colleen Hoover
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One of the things I love about books is being able to define and condense certain portions of a character's life into chapters. It's intriguing, because you can't do this with real life. You can't just end a chapter, then skip the things you don't want to live through, only to open it up to a chapter that better suits your mood. Life can't be divided into chapters.. only minutes. The events of your life are all crammed together one minute right after the other without any time lapses or blank pages or chapter breaks because no matter what happens life just keeps going and moving forward and words keep flowing and truths keep spewing whether you like it or not and life never lets you pause and just catch your fucking breath. I need one of those chapter breaks. I just want to catch my breath, but I have no idea how. Colleen Hoover
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Life is a funny thing. We only get so many years to live it, so we have to do everything we can to make sure those years are as full as they can be. We shouldn't waste time on things that might happen someday, or maybe even never. Colleen Hoover
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I wanted to cry because I needed you there with me so bad. I knew in that moment that I was in love with you. I was in love with the way you loved me. When you wrapped your arms around me and held me, I knew that no matter what happened with my life, you were my home. You stole the biggest piece of my heart that night. Colleen Hoover
Regret is counterproductive. It's looking back on a past that...
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Regret is counterproductive. It's looking back on a past that you can't change. Questioning things as they occur can prevent regret in the future. Colleen Hoover
Sometimes life doesn't happen in chronological order.
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Sometimes life doesn't happen in chronological order. Colleen Hoover
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There are moments in every relationship that define when two people start to fall in love. A first glance A first smile A first kiss A first fall…( I remove the Darth Vader house shoes from my satchel and look down at them.) You were wearing these during one of those moments. One of the moments I first started to fall in love with you. The way you gave me butterflies that morning Had absolutely nothing to do with anyone else, and everything to do with you. I was falling in love with you that morningbecause of you.( I take the next item out of the satchel. When I pull it out and look up, she brings her hands to her mouth in shock.) This ugly little gnome With his smug little grin… He's the reason I had an excuse to invite you into my house. Into my life. You took a lot of aggression out on him over those next few months. I would watch from my window as you would kick him over every time you walked by him. Poor little guy. You were so tenacious. That feisty, aggressive, strong-willed side of you…. The side of you that refused to take crap from this concrete gnome? The side of you that refused to take crap from me? I fell in love with that side of youbecause of you.( I set the gnome down on the stage and grab the CD)This is your favorite CD‘Layken’s shit.’ Although now I know you intended for shit to be possessive, rather than descriptive. The banjo started playing through the speakers of your carand I immediately recognized my favorite band. Then when I realized it was your favorite band, too? The fact that these same lyrics inspired both of us? I fell in love with that about you. That had absolutely nothing to do with anyone else. I fell in love with that about youbecause of you.( I take a slip of paper out of the satchel and hold it up. When I look at her, I see Eddie slide her a napkin. I can’t tell from up here, but that can only mean she’s crying.) This is a receipt I kept. Only because the item I purchased that night was on the verge of ridiculous. Chocolate milk on the rocks? Who orders that? You were different, and you didn’t care. You were being you. A piece of me fell in love with you at that moment, because of you. This? (I hold up another sheet of paper.) This I didn’t really like so much. It’s the poem you wrote about me. The one you titled 'mean?'I don’t think I ever told you…but you made a zero. And then I kept itto remind myself of all the things I never want to be to you.( I pull her shirt from my bag. When I hold it into the light, I sigh into the microphone.) This is that ugly shirt you wear. It doesn’t really have anything to do with why I fell in love with you. I just saw it at your house and thought I’d steal it. Colleen Hoover
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You wanted to lick my face the first time you saw me? Is that usually what you do when you’re attracted to guys?” I shake my head. “Not your face, your dimple. And no. You’re the only guy I’ve ever had the urge to lick.” He smiles at me confidently. “Good. Because you’re the only girl I’ve ever had the urge to love. Colleen Hoover
Never, under any circumstances, take a sleeping pill and a...
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Never, under any circumstances, take a sleeping pill and a laxative on the same night. Colleen Hoover
Sigh
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Sigh"?"Eye roll Colleen Hoover
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Sometimes we don’t get second chances, Owen. Sometimes things just end.” He winces. “We didn’t even get a first chance. Colleen Hoover
And that's where love finds you... in the tragedies.
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And that's where love finds you... in the tragedies. Colleen Hoover
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I'm really hoping he’s being genuine because I can already tell he isn't the kind of guy a girl gets a simple crush on. He’s the kind of guy you fall hard for, and the thought of that terrifies me. I don’t really want to fall hard for anyone at all, especially someone who’s only making an effort because he thinks I'm easy. I also don’t want to fall for someone who has already branded himself hopeless. But I'm curious. So curious. Colleen Hoover
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No, Sky. You didn't tell her everything…you told you everything. Those things happened to you, not to someone else. They happened to Hope. They happened to Sky. They happened to the best friend that I loved all those years ago, and they happened to the best friend I love who’s looking back at me right now. Colleen Hoover
Until then, never lose hope. Never stop loving me. Never...
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Until then, never lose hope. Never stop loving me. Never forget.
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I hope you defy the odds of most dreams and actually accomplish yours Colleen Hoover
Nothing is permanent. The only thing any of us have...
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Nothing is permanent. The only thing any of us have in common is the inevitable. Colleen Hoover
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I’d rather love you at the bottom than despise you at the top. Colleen Hoover
Truths are written, never said... Lines are drawn, but then...
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Truths are written, never said... Lines are drawn, but then they fade. Colleen Hoover
Sometimes moving on is the only way to move on.
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Sometimes moving on is the only way to move on. Colleen Hoover
I feel like my maybe someday just became my right...
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I feel like my maybe someday just became my right now. Colleen Hoover
I don't understand my sudden obsession with staring at her,...
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I don't understand my sudden obsession with staring at her, but i can't seem to stop. Colleen Hoover
His memory is the last place i want to be....
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His memory is the last place i want to be. I would give anything to always be in his present. Colleen Hoover
People don't get to choose who they fall in love...
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People don't get to choose who they fall in love with. The only get to choose who they stay in love with. Colleen Hoover
There can't be a maybe someday between us. There will...
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There can't be a maybe someday between us. There will never be a maybe someday. Colleen Hoover
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Every incident chips away at your limit. Every time you choose to stay, it makes the next time that much harder to leave. Eventually, you lose sight of your limit altogether, because you start to think, ‘I’ve lasted five years now. What’s five more? Colleen Hoover
When life gets you down do you wanna know what...
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When life gets you down do you wanna know what you’ve gotta do? .. . Just keep swimming. Just keep swimming. Just keep swimming, swimming, swimming. Colleen Hoover
I’m meeting the attic before I meet the girl.
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I’m meeting the attic before I meet the girl. Colleen Hoover
What a nickname. Teenagers can be so cruel. I’m embarrassed...
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What a nickname. Teenagers can be so cruel. I’m embarrassed to be one of them. Colleen Hoover
I'm pretty sure my addiction to reading has just reached...
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I'm pretty sure my addiction to reading has just reached a whole new level. Colleen Hoover
Should it matter what genre it is if the book...
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Should it matter what genre it is if the book is good? Colleen Hoover
But the second she opened her eyes and looked at...
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But the second she opened her eyes and looked at me, I knew. She was either going to be the death of me .. . or she was going to be the one who finally brought me back to life. Colleen Hoover
My heart made it's choice, and it chose you.
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My heart made it's choice, and it chose you. Colleen Hoover
Naked truths aren't always pretty.
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Naked truths aren't always pretty. Colleen Hoover
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Imagine all the people you meet in your life. There are so many. They come in like waves, trickling in and out with the tide. Some waves are much bigger and make more of an impact than others. Sometimes the waves bring with them things from deep in the bottom of the sea and they leave those things tossed onto the shore. Imprints against the grains of sand that prove the waves had once been there, long after the tide recedes. That was what Atlas was telling me when he said “I love you.” He was letting me know that I was the biggest wave he’d ever come across. And I brought so much with me that my impressions would always be there, even when the tide rolled out. Colleen Hoover
Okay, so how does this work exactly?
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Okay, so how does this work exactly?" I ask as we walk toward his car. "Do we float down the bayou in rowboat while little critters sing 'Kiss the Girl'. Colleen Hoover
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I remember one time we were walking into a grocery store and an old man was ringing a bell for the Salvation Army. I asked my dad if we could give him some money and he told me no, that he works hard for his money and he wasn’t about to let me give it away. He said it isn’t his fault that other people don’t want to work. He spent the whole time we were in the grocery store telling me about how people take advantage of the government and until the government stops helping those people by giving them handouts, the problem won’t ever go away… I believed him. That was three years ago and all this time I thought homeless people were homeless because they were lazy or drug addicts or just didn’t want to work like other people. But now I know that’s not true. Sure, some of what he said was true to an extent, but he was using the worst-case scenarios. Not everyone is homeless because they choose to be. They’re homeless because there isn’t enough help to go around. And people like my father are the problem. Instead of helping others, people use the worst-case scenarios to excuse their own selfishness and greed. Colleen Hoover
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If I were a carpenter, I would build you a window to my soul. But I would leave that window shut and locked, so that every time you tried to look through it all you would see is your own reflection. You would see that my soul is a reflection of you. Colleen Hoover
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I think about all the people I wish could die instead of you. Colleen Hoover
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Tate lays her head on my arm, and we both watch her. Our daughter. I love you so much, Sam.I’m looking down at the perfection we created when it hits me. It’s all worth it. It’s the beautiful moments like these that make up for the uglylove. Colleen Hoover
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The old me is sure making things difficult for the current me. Colleen Hoover
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Who cares about tomorrow? What more is tomorrow, than another day?(- The Avett Brothers, "Swept Away") Colleen Hoover
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As an author, I want to write what I’m inspired to write. Not what my readers want me to write. I feel like the books will ultimately be better if my heart is fully into what I’m writing. Colleen Hoover
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You can't get mad at a real ending. Some of them are ugly. It's the fake happily ever afters that should piss you off. Colleen Hoover
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Whether or not the couple ends up together at the end of a book doesn't determine whether the book has a happy ending or not. As long as the two people end up happy, it doesn't really matter if they end up happy together. Colleen Hoover
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The things that knock you down in life are tests, forcing you to make a choice between giving in and remaining on the ground or wiping the dirt off and standing up even taller than you did before you were knocked down. I’m choosing to stand up taller. I’ll probably get knocked down a few more times before this life is through with me, but I can guarantee you I’ll never stay on the ground. Colleen Hoover
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I've lost a lot in my long life. Yes, I've seen pain and I've seen strife. But I'll never give up; I'll never let go. Because I'll always have my ray of hope. Colleen Hoover
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Thank you for loving me like you love me. Thank you for showing me that we don't always have to be strong to be there for each other--that it's okay to be weak, so long as we're there. Colleen Hoover
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There will be days that I don't think we'll know how to survive. But we will, because we have each other. Colleen Hoover
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Don't ask about my past. And never expect a future. Colleen Hoover
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Sometimes not speaking says more than all the words in the world. Colleen Hoover
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Sky, wait.” The way his voice wraps around my name makes me wish the only word in his entire vocabulary way Sky. Colleen Hoover
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Sometimes we don't get second chances. Sometimes things just end. Colleen Hoover
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It's funny how that works. Sometimes not speaking says more than all the words in the world. Sometimes my silence is saying, I don't know how to speak to you. I don't know what you're thinking. Talk to me. Tell me everything you've ever said. All the words. Starting from your very first one. Colleen Hoover
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There is no such thing as bad people.we're all just people who sometimes do bad things. Colleen Hoover
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I didn't mean to scare you. I'm not suicidal if that's what's freaking you out. I'm not fucked up in the head. I'm not deranged. I'm not suffering from post-traumatic stress disorder. I'm just a brother who loved his sister more than life itself, so I get a little intense when I think about her. Colleen Hoover
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Whatever he goes through, I feel. Whatever I go through, he feels. It’s what happens when two people become one: they no longer only share love. They also share all of the pain, heartache, sorrow, and grief. Colleen Hoover
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I'm not capable of being casual with you, Lily. Colleen Hoover
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Nothing in my life has ever felt so good yet it hurt so achingly bad. Colleen Hoover
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I'll love you even when I can't"" I'll love you even when I shouldn't Colleen Hoover
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I stood beside the U-Haul, and I just watched her. I stared at her while she looked on with the saddest look in her eyes. I wanted to know what she was thinking about, what was going on in her head. What had mad her so sad? I wanted to hug her so bad. When she finally got out of the U-Haul and I introduced myself to her, it took all I had to let go of her hand. I wanted to hold on to it forever. I wanted to let her know that she wasn't alone. Whatever burden it was that she was carrying around, I wanted to carry it for her. I wish I could, Lake. I wish I could take it all away. Unfortunately, that's not how it works. It doesn't just go away. Colleen Hoover
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When someone close to you dies, the memories and recollections of them are painful. Colleen Hoover
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I would give anything to have that memory back--to see what it was like between us when we loved each other enough to believe it was forever. Colleen Hoover
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While he spends all of his time trying to remember, I spend all of my time trying to forget. I don’t want to remember how it feels to love him. I want to forget everything in this world that reminds me of him. Colleen Hoover
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I've never looked forward before. I've always looked back. I think about the past way too much and I think about what I should have done and everything I did wrong and I've never once looked forward in my life. Colleen Hoover
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Every time the song looped, all I heard was the part about the lies - and how they weigh you down. Tonight, as I drive toward Detroit in my Jeep, I know what those words really mean. It's not just the lies they're referring to. It's life. You can't run to another town, another place, another state. Whatever it is you're running from - it goes with you. It stays with you until you find out how to confront it. . Colleen Hoover
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Desire is easy to fight. Especially when the only weapon desire possesses is attraction. It's not so easy when you're trying to win a war against the heart. Colleen Hoover
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Desire is easy to fight. Especially when the only weapon desire possess is attraction. It's not so easy when you're trying to win a war against the heart. Colleen Hoover
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I'm a fool. At least i'm a self aware fool. Colleen Hoover
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I never realised how powerful desire could be. It consumes every part of you, enhancing your senses by a million. Colleen Hoover
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Fate.A word meaning destiny. Fate. A word meaning doom. Colleen Hoover
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And sometimes when I feel that much emotion, something inside of me just snaps. Colleen Hoover
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You don’t put pressure on me to be something I’m incapable of being. You accept me exactly how I am. Colleen Hoover
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And when you love someone, seeing them sad also makes you sad. Colleen Hoover
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What rules?”“ Well, for one, I’m not allowed to break your heart, ” he says. “Second, I’m also not allowed to break your damn heart. And last, I’m not allowed to fucking break your damn heart. Colleen Hoover
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This poem is very long So long, in fact, that your attention span May be stretched to its very limits But that’s okay It’s what’s so special about poetry See, poetry takes time We live in a time Call it our culture or society It doesn’t matter to me cause neither one rhymes A time where most people don’t want to listen Our throats wait like matchsticks waiting to catch fire Waiting until we can speak No patience to listen But this poem is long It’s so long, in fact, that during the time of this poem You could’ve done any number of other wonderful things You could’ve called your father Call your father You could be writing a postcard right now Write a postcard When was the last time you wrote a postcard? You could be outside You’re probably not too far away from a sunrise or a sunset Watch the sun rise Maybe you could’ve written your own poem A better poem You could have played a tune or sung a song You could have met your neighbor And memorized their name Memorize the name of your neighbor You could’ve drawn a picture( Or, at least, colored one in) You could’ve started a book Or finished a prayer You could’ve talked to GodPrayWhen was the last time you prayed? Really prayed? This is a long poem So long, in fact, that you’ve already spent a minute with it When was the last time you hugged a friend for a minute? Or told them that you love them? Tell your friends you love them…no, I mean it, tell them Say, I love you Say, you make life worth living Because that, is what friends do Of all of the wonderful things that you could’ve done During this very, very long poem You could have connected Maybe you are connecting Maybe we’re connecting See, I believe that the only things that really matter In the grand scheme of life are God and people And if people are made in the image of GodThen when you spend your time with people It’s never wasted And in this very long poem I’m trying to let a poem do what a poem does: Make things simpler We don’t need poems to make things more complicated We have each other for that We need poems to remind ourselves of the things that really matter To take time A long time To be alive for the sake of someone else for a single moment Or for many moments Cause we need each other To hold the hands of a broken person All you have to do is meet a person Shake their hand Look in their eyes They are you We are all broken together But these shattered pieces of our existence don’t have to be a mess We just have to care enough to hold our tongues sometimes To sit and listen to a very long poem A story of a life The joy of a friend and the grief of friend To hold and be held And be quiet So, pray Write a postcard Call your parents and forgive them and then thank them Turn off the TVCreate art as best as you can Share as much as possible, especially money Tell someone about a very long poem you once heard And how afterward it brought you to them . Colleen Hoover
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I could go on all night, Lake. I could go on and on and on about all the reasons I’m in love with you. And you know what? Some of them are the things that life has thrown our way. I do love you because you’re the only other person I know who understands my situation. I do love you because both of us know what it’s like to lose your mom and your dad. I do love you because you’re raising your little brother, just like I am. I love you because of what you went through with your mother. I love you because of what we went through with your mother. I love the way you love Kel. I love the way you love Caulder. And I love the way I love Kel. So I’m not about to apologize for loving all these things about you, no matter the reasons or the circumstances behind them. And no, I don’t need days, or weeks, or months to think about why I love you. It’s an easy answer for me. I love you because of you. Because of every single thing about you. . Colleen Hoover
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People don't like to talk about death because it makes them sad. Colleen Hoover
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I know my mouth is agape and my eyes are wide, but I'm relieved that hope isn't a tangible thing, because everyone around me would see mine crumbling. Colleen Hoover
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We try so hard to hide everything we're really feeling from those who probably need to know our true feelings the most. People try to bottle up their emotions, as if it's somehow wrong to have natural reactions to life. Colleen Hoover
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To me, lyrics are harder to write when you have to invent the feelings behind them. That's when lyrics take a lot of thought, when they aren't genuine. Colleen Hoover
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When you aren't sure what it is you hate or why you even hate it, it's hard to hold onto the details...you just hold on to the feelings. Colleen Hoover
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I tell myself that with enough effort, I can control my feelings. Colleen Hoover
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I absolutely, positively hate this beautiful, magical feeling. Colleen Hoover